Divorce is a significant life transition, and the attorney you choose can directly affect your finances, your parenting rights, and your peace of mind. At Rojas Law Firm, we believe informed clients make stronger decisions. Before hiring a divorce lawyer, it is essential to ask clear, direct questions so you understand who will be handling your case and how they approach it.

Below are ten questions we encourage anyone considering a divorce attorney to ask before signing an agreement.

1. How Much of Your Practice Is Focused on Divorce and Family Law?

Divorce law in Texas has its own rules, timelines, and strategic considerations. You want an attorney who regularly handles divorce cases and understands issues like property division, custody disputes, and support calculations. Asking this question helps you confirm that divorce is not an occasional side matter for the attorney.

2. What Divorce Process Do You Recommend for My Situation?

Some divorces are resolved through negotiation, while others require court involvement. The right approach depends on factors like children, property, conflict level, and financial transparency. A lawyer can explain which path fits your circumstances and why, without making unrealistic promises about speed or outcome.

3. How Do You Handle Communication With Clients?

Clear communication matters throughout a divorce. Ask how often you will receive updates, whether communication is handled by the attorney or staff, and how quickly messages are returned. Knowing what to expect reduces frustration and prevents misunderstandings during stressful moments.

4. Who Will Be Working on My Divorce Case Day to Day?

Some firms assign tasks to multiple team members. That can be efficient, but you should know who is responsible for filings, strategy, and court appearances. Ask whether the lawyer you are meeting will personally handle hearings and negotiations or if those duties may be delegated.

5. What Is Your Approach to Child Custody and Parenting Plans?

If children are involved, this question is essential. Parenting plans affect daily life long after the divorce is final. We believe child custody decisions should prioritize stability and long-term well-being, not short-term wins. Your divorce attorney should explain how they address custody disputes and encourage practical solutions where possible.

6. How Do You Handle Property and Debt Division?

Texas follows community property principles, but dividing assets is rarely straightforward. Ask how the attorney evaluates property, debts, retirement accounts, and business interests. A clear explanation shows whether the lawyer focuses on detail, fairness, and long-term financial impact.

7. What Are the Likely Challenges in My Case?

No divorce is identical. A thoughtful attorney should identify potential pressure points early, whether they involve contested custody, hidden assets, or communication breakdowns. Honest answers help you prepare emotionally and financially, rather than being surprised later.

8. How Are Legal Fees Structured?

Understanding fees upfront avoids conflict later. Ask how billing works, what services are included, and how costs are tracked. Transparency around fees allows you to budget realistically and assess whether the firm’s approach aligns with your expectations.

9. How Do You Help Clients Make Decisions During Emotional Moments?

Divorce often involves anger, fear, and uncertainty. A lawyer should be steady, practical, and focused on outcomes, not fueled by conflict. Ask how they guide clients through high-emotion situations and help them stay focused on goals that matter long term.

10. What Should I Be Doing Right Now to Protect My Case?

This question gives immediate value. The answer may involve gathering documents, avoiding certain communications, or making temporary arrangements. Early guidance can prevent mistakes that affect custody, finances, or credibility.

Why Asking the Right Questions Matters

Choosing a divorce attorney is not just about credentials. It is about trust, communication, and alignment. The right questions reveal how a lawyer thinks, how they treat clients, and whether their approach fits your needs. We encourage prospective clients to ask these questions openly and expect direct answers.

At Rojas Law Firm, we take the time to explain options, set realistic expectations, and provide steady guidance throughout the divorce process. We believe clients deserve clarity, honesty, and thoughtful advocacy at every stage. Our goal is to help you make informed choices, reduce uncertainty, protect important priorities, and move forward with confidence during a difficult transition while receiving responsive communication and practical support.

Talk With Our Divorce Attorneys Today

If you are considering divorce and want clear answers before moving forward, our family law team is here to help. Call 210-299-4600 to speak with us, or contact us online to schedule a confidential consultation.